Breakups With Women With Traits of BPD:Five Misconceptions That Keep MenFrom Letting Go and Moving On
A breakup with a woman who engages in behaviors associated with BPD or borderline personality disorder during a romantic relationship may be one of the more painful experiences a man can go through. Many […]
Romantic Idealization And DevaluationIn Women With Traits of BPD
If you are like most men who have found themselves in a committed relationship with a woman with traits of borderline personality disorder or BPD, you probably started off feeling like you were the luckiest guy in the world. Here was […]
Defense Mechanisms Triggered By Humiliation
Part 4 of the blog series Disarming Defense Mechanisms
In Part 4 of this blog series we will be addressing the kind of defense mechanisms that can cause true human devastation. When feelings of humiliation are triggered by insecurity, defense mechanisms can go underground and […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Why She Can’t Say I’m Sorry
When She Won’t Admit She’s Wrong
In this blog post we are going to take a look at what is really behind this painful behavior pattern in women with traits of BPD. Once you understand the true motivation […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Regaining Her Trust
When Trust Is An Uphill Battle
You probably found out the hard way that a woman with traits of BPD often can’t trust. She may have at first disclosed her deepest secrets to you and may also have gotten you to tell her […]
Women With Traits of BPD: Why Can’t She Trust Me?
Understanding Why Women With Traits of BPD Lose Trust
If you have ever tried to get close to a woman with traits of borderline personality disorder, or BPD, you probably know firsthand that getting this individual to trust you is an […]
Borderline Personality Disorder In Plain Language
Understanding The Traits of Borderline Personality Disorder
Borderline Personality Disorder is a very complicated condition and can be very difficult for the average person to understand. However, there are simple explanations for many of these puzzling behaviors. To start with, it can be helpful to […]
With this understanding of what makes the woman with traits of BPD engage in these destructive behavior patterns, let’s now turn to the question of why so many men stay even when it’s clear that the woman they are with is not capable of sustaining a healthy relationship. In […]
The bond that you formed with her may have been the strongest you have ever felt for another human being, and you may have very quickly been convinced that this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. But what you might not have […]
Welcome to Part 3 of the Nicola Method Blog series on understanding high conflict women, those women who have some traits of borderline personality disorder, or BPD, but do not qualify for a diagnosis.
In Part 1 and Part 2 of this series we explored many of the differences between […]