Marriage Entitlement: Part 3-Does Your Spouse’s Happiness Matter More Than Yours
In Part 2 of Marriage Entitlement we learned what happens when one spouse feels over-entitled to love. In Part 3 we are going to discuss another marriage entitlement, the entitlement to happiness. But in order to determine […]
Marriage Entitlement – Part 2: When Your Love Is Not Enough
Marriage entitlement can be a very difficult subject to broach with a spouse. Because we rarely talk about marriage entitlements, spouses who are unfairly painted as withholding them often don’t have the language to defend themselves. And without this […]
Traits of BPD: Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have a Conscience?
There are many questions that people who find themselves in relationships with women on the spectrum of BPD or borderline personality disorder ask themselves. One of the most common questions is whether their ex girlfriend had a conscience. […]
Did Your Ex-Girlfriend Have Traits of BPD-The Defense Mechanism of Projection
In this blog post we will be addressing one of the more complex behavior patterns associated with BPD, or borderline personality disorder. The behavior pattern we will be looking at is commonly known as projection. Although you may not […]
Women With Traits of BPD – Why Did She Lie?
In this blog post we are going to be addressing the coping behavior of lying and why women with traits of BPD or borderline personality disorder so often engage in it. Although lying is not part of the criteria […]
Women With Traits of BPD:How To Let Go of the Good Times
Breaking up with a woman with traits of BPD or borderline personality disorder can be very painful. But one of the toughest aspects of these breakups is the persistent longing to get back that feeling of ultimate fulfillment […]
Identifying Traits of BPD In WomenBefore Relationship Commitment
In this blog post we are going to be answering a very important question. Can a man who has been through a breakup with a woman with traits of BPD, or borderline personality disorder, recognize the traits in the next woman he […]
Breakups With Women With Traits of BPD:Five Misconceptions That Keep MenFrom Letting Go and Moving On
A breakup with a woman who engages in behaviors associated with BPD or borderline personality disorder during a romantic relationship may be one of the more painful experiences a man can go through. Many […]
Romantic Idealization And DevaluationIn Women With Traits of BPD
If you are like most men who have found themselves in a committed relationship with a woman with traits of borderline personality disorder or BPD, you probably started off feeling like you were the luckiest guy in the world. Here was […]
Marriage Entitlement – Part 1
When Your Spouse Takes Too Much Or Gives Too Little
Attitudes of Entitlement
In this blog series we are going to be taking a look at a very common problem in marriage. We are going to be addressing the situation where one spouse feels entitled to either […]